I Want to Get Married: He Wants to Wait

I have known this guy for three years now. To say that he is Mr. Right is an understatement. Since I met him, my life has changed considerably. He came and swept me over my feet, literally. There is some mix into the whole relationship though, I want to get married he wants to wait. I am torn between a rock and a hard place. Should I wait for him or should I quit before it’s too late?

Many women are familiar with such a situation, where they really want to get married but the man they are with doesn’t think the time is right. If you are ever caught in such a situation, here’s what to do:

Have a Candid Chat with Your Man…Before you decide to call it quits you need to sit down with him and tell him that he needs to reconsider his position in regards to getting married. Be honest with him that you are getting a little impatient with his time wasting. Don’t forget to mention to him that neither of you is getting younger in case he forgot. 

Encourage Him to Embrace the Idea of Getting Married…Perfect relationships most of the times end up into marriage. Encourage your man to get married to you by showing him the positivity that comes with it. Spruce things up by sending him sweet texts when he is away at work. When he comes home read him cute love quotes but make sure they are marriage oriented.

Consider Your Options…Take time out to reflect on what option you have and decide on the way forward. Make sure you seek advice before settling on any particular choice. Talk to a relationship expert and tell him that you want to get married but your guy wants to wait and hear what they have to say. If all doesn’t work, don’t despair may be, just maybe he might change his heart if you give him some more time. If he doesn’t change consider leaving.

It may be hard to face the truth that you can breakup with a man you have known for a long period of time just because he doesn’t want to get married. Make sure you exhaust all options before you call it quits!