Many women are familiar with such a situation,
where they really want to get married but the man they are with doesn’t think
the time is right. If you are ever caught in such a situation, here’s what to
do:
Have a Candid Chat with Your Man…Before you decide
to call it quits you need to sit down with him and tell him that he needs to
reconsider his position in regards to getting married. Be honest with him that
you are getting a little impatient with his time wasting. Don’t forget to
mention to him that neither of you is getting younger in case he forgot.
Encourage Him to Embrace the Idea of Getting
Married…Perfect relationships most of the times end up into marriage. Encourage
your man to get married to you by showing him the positivity that comes with
it. Spruce things up by sending him sweet texts when he is away at work. When he comes home read him cute love quotes but make sure they are
marriage oriented.
Consider Your Options…Take time out to reflect on what option you have and decide on the way forward. Make sure you seek advice before settling on any particular choice. Talk to a relationship expert and tell him that you want to get married but your guy wants to wait and hear what they have to say. If all doesn’t work, don’t despair may be, just maybe he might change his heart if you give him some more time. If he doesn’t change consider leaving.
It may be hard to face the truth that you can
breakup with a man you have known for a long period of time just because he
doesn’t want to get married. Make sure you exhaust all options before you call
it quits!
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